The ceremony was beautiful and wonderfully foreign to us. Sharon's family and friends were beaming - I am sure the earlier western ceremony had seemed just as strange to many of them. As soon as it was over, we didn't miss a chance to quietly give Jeff a hard time. "Dude, you look like Korean Superman." "Dude, that's a dress size too small." One of my favorites was from Brian Compani, a wild-eyed defenseman who Marta believes has killed someone. "Dude, if I was dressed like that, I'd kick my own @#%." Marta chimed in with the occasional "Quiet, you idiots." But Jeff was serious about this, and while he took our ribbing good-naturedly, he handled himself with maturity, respect, and quiet dignity, which is more than I can say for the rest of us. You have to love someone to marry them, but you have to REALLY love someone to put on that outfit in front of your hockey team.